
Over Memorial Day weekend, while visiting with family, we took the opportunity to visit the graves of my grandma, and both sets of Ryan's grandparents. While driving to the West Point Cemetery, my mom mentioned that in the 9.5 years of visiting her mother's grave, she had never been there when any of her siblings or father were visiting. Well, there is always a first. Her father came a few minutes after we arrived. We were talking about a myriad of topics, when he brought up the fact that he would take flowers to his sister's grave in New York. I told him that I didn't realize that he had a sister who died in New York and he replied that she died at age 6 months. That really surprised me. I didn't know that he had lived in New York as a child. Well, that started him into telling stories from his childhood. This one is my favorite:
When Pansy Owens Clay agreed to marry Hyrum Adelbert "Bert" Bateman in March of 1936, she asked for him to promise to take her and her children (from a previous marriage) to the temple to be sealed together as a family for time and all eternity. Bert had to work hard for that to happen. He had to quit smoking. He had to attend church. He had to be ordained to the Melchizedek Priesthood. And he needed to save enough money for the family to travel from Pocatello, Idaho to Logan, Utah, where the closest temple was. During their first two years of marriage, Bert overcame his addiction to smoking, attended church with the family and was ordained to the Melchizedek Priesthood. Money, however, was hard to come by. The family was poor. It was during the Great Depression. They lived in a log house with a sod roof. One day, the only bread in the house was moldy, and so it was put in the pig slop bucket. Mother took that moldy bread out of the bucket, washed it off with water and served it for supper.
After having a discussion with Mother, about when they'd go to the temple, which left her crying, Bert left the house. He couldn't stand to see Pansy cry. He prayed to find a way to earn the money needed to get to the temple and all of a sudden, their sow and her piglets came running around the side of the house. As they ran by, Bert saw dollar signs on the side of each piglet. If he would sell the piglets, they would have enough money to travel to the Logan Utah Temple.
And so Bert sold the piglets and had enough money to take the family to the temple. They were sealed on March 9, 1938 in the Logan Utah Temple.

The best part about this story was that my grandpa got teary eyed during the retelling. He choked up at the part where the piglets come running around the side of the house. I can tell that it meant a lot to him as a 12 year old boy to go to the temple to be sealed to his mom and step-dad.